Bid adieu : Merry–go-round :
How joyous it is to be on a merry go round ! Being born in a country of festivals , each festival means lots of fun and frolic around. As children we have all enjoyed taking a ride on the “merry go round” with its painted horses with later versions of all kinds of animals (in wood). Both children as well as the elders under the hue of protecting their children from any possible fall have always enjoyed the ride with its spectacular rise and falls and a feeling of giddiness due to encircling and the great feeling of chasing the riders in the front. Even though many of the centuries old entertainments and amusements have disappeared in the past few decades, still “merry go round” remains captive even though it has metamorphosed into different forms. It is also surprising that this is famous throughout the globe which is reflected through famous songs , articles and videos. Recently, I happened to listen to a song in which a line appeared as “ Life is not a merry go round” which had a profound influence on me and gave a lot of different thought perceptions about this particular form of entertainment equally adored and cherished by children and elders. A few points are note worthy about the merry go round :
It brings abundant joy to the rider and a sense of elation like riding a war horse and no one wants to stop and get away from the ride.
In addition to the joy, it makes you dizzy and exhausted as good as running a marathon.
ü You never know whether you are in the front or back of the ride ( many times we wonder weather every one else is chasing us or the other way !)
ü The thrill of encircling in topsy turvy rides but reaching the final destination at the same place where you started the ride !
ü There is always a crowd waiting to board for the next session.
ü It is equally true that we can choose to ride any number of times, any day, at our choice.
Having said that, the merry go round has been compared innumerable times , with human life , by writers, singers and philosophers. There is this inspiring song “life is a merry go round” by Donovan. There is a powerful existentialist school of thought stating that what matters is only the ride and not the destination which is all about the human life ! That there is no real meaning for human life ( Remember Con shaw and his persian carpet in “of human bondage” by somerset maughm).
Quite often, I am reminded of a famous song I enjoyed listening to in my younger days : “que sera sera”. It is about an interaction between an young child and her mother wishing to know what the child will become in future. The mother replies “ que sera, sera, whatever will be will be, the future’s not ours, what will be, will be “. Later in the song, the now grown up child herself repeats the same line to her own little daughter , being unable to decipher the mystery of life. Just like the merry go round, the players seem to change every generation but the puzzle never seem to unfold !